Blowjob: bottom/top?

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Hi, stupid question:

I always thought that the "penetrative" part of a BJ was the "top".

I see many profiles here that use "bottom" and I suspect they mean as in "I like it to be done to me".

Which one is the consensus here?
Thx!

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Created30/05/201711

Helmut60 yrs

OMG, we had that discussion some days ago - "Ich werde wohl dumm sterben, es sei denn mich klärt hier jemand auf" - was the german titel.

the consensus was that there is no consensus

the concept of top/bottom translated to German is activ/passiv

the translation is the source of misunderstandings - cause German bottoms think they are active when they do the blow job. even when you explain why that is wrong, they stubborn keep on thinking that they are active in that position.

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Created31/05/201730

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LOL, thx Helmut, I just had a look at that thread. Sorry I didn't see it (it seems somebody is pissed by my question, I don't mean you), I was not a member and just by the title it wasn't obvious.. And I'm not very opportune.

I''m also one of those "top = penetrative" folks, but seeing how many people understand the contrary I think I''ll leave it as "versatile" in my profile so I don''t miss anything good just because of this

Created31/05/2017edited once10

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Helmut vielleicht solltest du oder jemand von GR den Titel des betreffenden threats mal ergänzen oder so

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